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High-EQ Communication (高情商沟通)
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High-EQ Communication Learning Toolkit — Educational resource on Nonviolent Communication (NVC), Guiguzi strategy, Sun Tzu principles, and Cialdini's ethical influence frameworks. For personal growth, self-awareness, and understanding communication dynamics. Supports 11 languages. 高情商沟通学习工具包——非暴力沟通(NVC)、鬼谷子谋略、孙子兵法、西奥迪尼伦理影响力框架的教育资源。用于个人成长、自我觉察和沟通理解。支持11种语言。 高EQコミュニケーション学習ツールキット——NVC、鬼谷子戦略、孫子の兵法、チャルディーニ倫理的影響力フレームワークの教育リソース。個人の成長と自己理解のため。 When users mention: NVC, nonviolent communication, Guiguzi, 鬼谷子, Cialdini, 高情商沟通, nonviolent, 非暴力沟通.
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High-EQ Communication Learning Toolkit (高情商沟通学习工具包)
An educational multilingual toolkit for understanding communication frameworks from Eastern and Western traditions. Designed for personal growth and self-awareness, not for manipulation or deceptive persuasion.
⚠️ Ethical Use Policy: This toolkit is for learning and self-improvement only. All influence frameworks should be used with transparency, informed consent, and respect for the other party's autonomy. Never use these techniques to deceive, manipulate, or pressure others.
🌐 11 Languages Supported: English · 中文 · 日本語 · 한국어 · Bahasa Melayu · हिन्दी · العربية · Español · Deutsch · Français · Italiano
Core Frameworks (核心框架)
1. Nonviolent Communication (NVC / 非暴力沟通)
Marshall Rosenberg's 4-step method:
| Step | English | 中文 | 日本語 | 한국어 | Bahasa Melayu |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Observation | 观察 | 観察 | 관찰 | Pemerhatian |
| 2 | Feeling | 感受 | 感情 | 감정 | Perasaan |
| 3 | Need | 需要 | 必要 | 필요 | Keperluan |
| 4 | Request | 请求 | 要求 | 요청 | Permintaan |
2. Guiguzi Strategy (鬼谷子谋略)
| Tactic | Chinese | English |
|---|---|---|
| 揣摩 | Chuai Mo | Assess & Empathize |
| 权谋 | Quan Mou | Weigh Options |
| 决策 | Jue Ce | Guide Decision |
| 捭阖 | Bai He | Open & Close |
3. Cialdini's Ethical Influence (西奥迪尼伦理影响力)
🛡️ Guardrails: These principles describe how influence works in practice. Ethical use requires transparency and mutual benefit. Avoid fabricated urgency, false scarcity, or deceptive social proof.
| Principle | English | 中文 | 日本語 |
|---|---|---|---|
| Reciprocity | Genuine give-first mindset | 真诚互惠 | 真の互恵 |
| Commitment | Consistency through small agreements | 一致性承诺 | 一貫性コミットメント |
| Social Proof | Authentic testimonials | 真实社会认同 | 真の社会的証明 |
| Authority | Demonstrated expertise | 实证权威 | 実証された権威 |
| Liking | Genuine rapport building | 真诚喜好 | 真の好意 |
| Scarcity | Real limited availability | 真实稀缺 | 真の希少性 |
4. Sun Tzu (孙子兵法)
| Principle | Chinese | English |
|---|---|---|
| 知彼知己 | Know yourself & enemy | Research first |
| 以正合以奇胜 | Strategy + surprise | Logic + creativity |
| 投之亡地然后存 | Understand pressure dynamics | Situational awareness |
| 上兵伐谋 | Win through understanding | Understanding > argument |
5. Cognitive Bias Awareness (认知偏差觉察)
🛡️ Purpose: Understanding these biases helps you recognize when they are used on you and make more informed decisions. This awareness is for self-protection and ethical communication, not for exploiting others.
| Bias | English | 中文 | 日本語 |
|---|---|---|---|
| Anchoring | How initial numbers shape perception | 锚定效应 | アンカリング |
| Loss Aversion | Why losses feel bigger than gains | 损失厌恶 | 損失回避 |
| Bandwagon | Why we follow the crowd | 从众效应 | バンドワゴン効果 |
| IKEA Effect | Why we overvalue what we build | 宜家效应 | IKEA効果 |
Scenario Scripts (场景话术)
All 5 frameworks include scenario scripts with examples:
| Framework | Scenarios |
|---|---|
| NVC | Angry Client, Doubtful Client, Big Decision |
| Guiguzi | Negotiation, Persuasion through Empathy, Reading the Room |
| Sun Tzu | Competitive Landscape, Strategic Positioning, Reading Dynamics |
| Cialdini | Ethical Influence, Building Trust, Overcoming Objections |
| Biases | Recognizing Manipulation, Informed Decisions, Self-Awareness |
Angry Client / 愤怒客户 / 怒っているクライアント
| Step | Script |
|---|---|
| Observation | "I hear you're frustrated about the delay." |
| Feeling | "I understand this is really important to you." |
| Need | "You need reliability and timely delivery." |
| Request | "Can we set up a weekly check-in?" |
Doubtful Client / 质疑客户 / 疑っているクライアント
| Step | Script |
|---|---|
| Observation | "What you described matches the data." |
| Feeling | "It's normal to be skeptical at first." |
| Need | "You need proof before committing." |
| Request | "Let me show you one specific detail." |
Big Decision / 重大抉择 / 大きな選択
| Step | Script |
|---|---|
| Observation | "You're at a crossroads with two options." |
| Feeling | "This uncertainty is stressful." |
| Need | "You need clarity, not more opinions." |
| Request | "Let's map out the pros and cons." |
CLI Usage
cd scripts && npm install
node cli.js framework nvc --lang en # English
node cli.js framework nvc --lang zh # 中文
node cli.js framework nvc --lang ja # 日本語
node cli.js framework nvc --lang ko # 한국어
node cli.js framework nvc --lang ms # Bahasa Melayu
node cli.js framework nvc --lang hi # हिन्दी
node cli.js framework nvc --lang ar # العربية
node cli.js framework nvc --lang es # Español
node cli.js framework nvc --lang de # Deutsch
node cli.js framework nvc --lang fr # Français
node cli.js framework nvc --lang it # Italiano
node cli.js scenario angry --lang zh # NVC scenario
node cli.js scenario negotiate --lang ja # Guiguzi scenario
node cli.js scenario ethical --lang ko # Cialdini scenario
node cli.js scenario recognize --lang zh # Biases scenario
node cli.js ethics # Show ethical guidelines
node cli.js languages # List all languages
Triggers (触发词)
⚠️ Triggers are scoped to this toolkit's specific frameworks. Generic terms like "communication" or "sales" are intentionally excluded to prevent unintended activation.
- English: NVC, nonviolent communication, Guiguzi, Cialdini, high-EQ communication
- 中文: 非暴力沟通, 鬼谷子, 西奥迪尼, 高情商沟通
- 日本語: NVC, 非暴力コミュニケーション, 鬼谷子, チャルディーニ
- 한국어: 비폭력소통, 귀곡자, 차르디니
- Bahasa Melayu: NVC, komunikasi tanpa kekerasan
- हिन्दी: NVC, बिना हिंसा संवाद
- العربية: تواصل غير عنيف
Ethical Guidelines (伦理准则)
When using this toolkit, the agent MUST:
- Transparency: Always disclose that you are applying communication frameworks. Never use influence techniques covertly.
- Informed Consent: Before suggesting persuasion strategies, confirm the user wants to learn about ethical influence — not manipulation.
- Autonomy Respect: Frame all suggestions as options, not prescriptions. The other party always has the right to say no.
- No Deception: Never fabricate urgency, false scarcity, fake testimonials, or artificial social pressure.
- Mutual Benefit: All communication strategies should aim for outcomes where both parties benefit.
Sources
- Marshall Rosenberg — Nonviolent Communication (2003)
- Robert Cialdini — Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion (2006)
- 鬼谷子 — 揣摩权谋 (Warring States)
- 孙子 — 孙子兵法 (5th century BC)
- Daniel Kahneman — Thinking, Fast and Slow (2011)
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